At the heart of it, renting is about economy. We rent because we can't afford to buy. At some point, practical reality starts to sway us psychologically. If and when the option to buy comes, is it somehow more meaningful than a number in a bank account? What does it say about us if we choose to continue to rent when we have the means to buy?
Very few people who buy actually manage to purchase outright. We live in a culture of mortgage, broken as that culture turned out to be. Just looking at that word, it inspires us to run. Mort gage, from the Latin-informed Old French meaning literally, "Dead Pledge". It is a contract with an end in mind. Either the mortgage defaults for non-payment, or the contract is fulfilled and it ends in full ownership. In essence, a mortgage is rent with the intention to stay, whereas a lease agreement is rent with the intention to leave.
It may not be a very sunny mindset, entering every new apartment thinking, "I'm going to leave here soon," but that's exactly what you're saying with a lease. It's like starting a relationship with a pre-determined breakup date.
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